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		<title>By: rnjlewis</title>
		<link>http://rnjlewis.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/this-should-not-be-pushed-under-the-rug/#comment-57</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 17:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Understand the legal ramifications but there is nothing to lose and nothing to gain. We are at 0% custody right now.

We need to get the word out so that we can help others in an all too familar situation and maybe one day the girls will read this and know that their dad never stopped loving them or wondering, or caring, they did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Understand the legal ramifications but there is nothing to lose and nothing to gain. We are at 0% custody right now.</p>
<p>We need to get the word out so that we can help others in an all too familar situation and maybe one day the girls will read this and know that their dad never stopped loving them or wondering, or caring, they did.</p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
		<link>http://rnjlewis.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/this-should-not-be-pushed-under-the-rug/#comment-55</link>
		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 04:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey you... I just read this and I love you to death but I want you to keep this in mind (coming from a LEGAL secretary) this blog is not the place to have this &quot;documentation&quot;.  I understand COMPLETELY about getting out your feelings and writing them down and I also understand about needing the support but, along with protecting Max and pictures, etc. on this blog, you might also want to consider protecting your family regarding having documentation about your feelings.  You know I support you and wish you the best of luck.  I just wanted to give you a bit of &quot;legal&quot; advice.  I&#039;m sorry you and James are going through this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey you&#8230; I just read this and I love you to death but I want you to keep this in mind (coming from a LEGAL secretary) this blog is not the place to have this &#8220;documentation&#8221;.  I understand COMPLETELY about getting out your feelings and writing them down and I also understand about needing the support but, along with protecting Max and pictures, etc. on this blog, you might also want to consider protecting your family regarding having documentation about your feelings.  You know I support you and wish you the best of luck.  I just wanted to give you a bit of &#8220;legal&#8221; advice.  I&#8217;m sorry you and James are going through this!</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
		<link>http://rnjlewis.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/this-should-not-be-pushed-under-the-rug/#comment-50</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 08:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi I read your article with great interest. Please read mine if you can. I have had a breakthrough with my kids who were being alienated against me in all sorts of ways. I&#039;m not perfect. I just love my kids. I wish you both an easier passage in life. PAS is simply abuse, mental abuse, and no one wins not even the alienator.
kind regards
Matt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi I read your article with great interest. Please read mine if you can. I have had a breakthrough with my kids who were being alienated against me in all sorts of ways. I&#8217;m not perfect. I just love my kids. I wish you both an easier passage in life. PAS is simply abuse, mental abuse, and no one wins not even the alienator.<br />
kind regards<br />
Matt.</p>
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		<title>By: rnjlewis</title>
		<link>http://rnjlewis.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/this-should-not-be-pushed-under-the-rug/#comment-47</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust me we have searched through all the useful sites and readings.  It has been a three year struggle, and the only hope that we have is that once the girls have children of their own they might see the damage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust me we have searched through all the useful sites and readings.  It has been a three year struggle, and the only hope that we have is that once the girls have children of their own they might see the damage.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D.</title>
		<link>http://rnjlewis.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/this-should-not-be-pushed-under-the-rug/#comment-46</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read your post with interest (and sadness) and wanted to suggest that you check out some of the websites and materials readily available for targeted parents. There are some very useful sites and readings on how to deal with the emotional struggle of parenting or trying to parent a child who is being manipulated by the other parent. Good luck.

Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D.
www.amyjlbaker.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read your post with interest (and sadness) and wanted to suggest that you check out some of the websites and materials readily available for targeted parents. There are some very useful sites and readings on how to deal with the emotional struggle of parenting or trying to parent a child who is being manipulated by the other parent. Good luck.</p>
<p>Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D.<br />
<a href="http://www.amyjlbaker.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.amyjlbaker.com</a></p>
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