Example Statements of an Obsessed Alienator

I don’t intend to beat this subject to death, but I feel that now that the horrific genie is out of the bottle it needs to be properly addressed. Writing this out is also a type of psychic cleansing for me since I feel this has polluted our otherwise stellar life. 

Example Statements of an Obsessed Alienator 

• I love my children. If the court can’t protect them from their abusive father, I will. 

• Even though he’s never abused the children, I know it’s a matter of time. 

• The children are frightened of their father. 

• If they don’t want to see him, I’m not going to force them. 

• They are old enough to make up their own minds.

 This is the last email I received from my ex-wife on February 25, 2008.  

Jim,  

Maddy does not want to go with you. I know Wednesday night is your time and I am fully aware of our custody agreement, I have told Maddy that she is supposed to go with you when it is your time to have with her. She is just not going to be forced anymore. Now that she is getting older she is being more assertive of how she feels and I can’t take the kid and drag her against her will. I really don’t know what else to tell you right now.

  

I have not seen or heard from either of my daughters since receiving this message.

 

So far this year my birthday (actually second year in a row), Father’s Day (actually second year in a row as well - with my ex-wife intentionally planning a barbecue at her house on this day last year, and I only know this because I had minimal contact with my daughters at that time), and finally my daughter’s high school graduation have passed and I did NOT receive any form of communication from any of them. I am forced to ASSUME my daughter graduated since no one in my family received any form of announcement or invitation to the event.

 

I think the facts speak for themselves.